AN OPEN LETTER TO DASOULOFSPRING
TO MARY ANN:
The blog you've posted strucked me and I earnestly sympathized w/ you! Your disclosure put myself back to reality. Mindsay is a haven for me, a hide away and I don't want other people to distract me. Like what I've told you, when I first read your blog, thought you're just a brat seeking attention but your blog dated october 24 entitled "Parents doll" was a revelation and insurmountable.Your horrendous experienced made me realized that life really, is a survival. Besides, who said life is fair?
"Parent stuff" is kinda complex. It trancends to the point of failure and success. Upbringing of children reflects the manner on how they were raised by their parents. But that is not always the case. Emotional and social development are things most parents often neglected. They believed that sending their children to a reputable school, providing them extravagant lifestyle, notwithstanding financial affluence. Parents seemingly thought that personality was cultured in this type of perception. But sometimes, personality is acquired through myriad channels. One factor is the community. In here, inter-action builds up. You'll literally meet "people from all walks of life" and if you're not fortunate enough you're gonna encounter "perverts" who will take advantage of your innocence.They will utilized the affinity to inflict harm on you. More often than not, people who committed promiscuity were closed kin, or friends and acquaintances of the family. (What a nerve!) THat's why because of trauma, some kids are shy, insensitive, vulgar, aberrant, boisterous,reserved. -You couldn't blame them for being such! Environment is the place where personality development also takes place. If a child has a weak personal;ity, he/she could easily absorb "stuff" that surroundings provided them. Their susceptibilty are defy by the occurrences transpired on it. Other people said that this would determine if you're gonna possess strong or weak persona. But I personally believe, it roots its threshold at home.The way our parents raised us emanate from our being. Children are the reflection of their parents. What they saw in them are inherent to the children. But your case is different. Having an unmindful mom is beyond my comprehension. I surmised that mom and daughter are supposed to be bonded, closed. And you proved me wrong! Mother should be the "light" of the of our dwellings. their job is to illuminate or enlighten the anxiety of their children. The "uncaring your mom demonstrated are detestable and abhoring. W/o your dad, mom is the one who should be protecting you. On that "fateful" day, when your mom didn't even bother to asked what really happened was despicable. For me, thar was the most unexpected reaction a mother could possibly did. The nonchalance by your mom was tantamount to neglect. (sorry to say that!) In the absence of your dad, your mom should be the pillars of strength but she did the opposite. It enrages me when financial concern exceeds more than well-being.For me it's just a pretext, an excuse. I am not condemning your mom but she's culpable for the incident. As what I've told ana (ayifilms@mindsay.com) Every existence has a purpose. Maybe life is just preparing you for a bigger role or responsibility and it's molding you to be strong to thwart challenges. So hold on dear, just live life and your in good path!
Cordially yours,
iell14
p.s. It was inpired by the blog wrtten for you by aiz (aiz@mindsay.com
